One Year of RV Life

Almost one year ago (technically February 19), we moved into our 35ft travel trailer with our two cats. We purchased our camper in November 2022, had it delivered December 2022, moved it to the KOA in January 2023, and moved out of our apartment in February 2023. In June 2023, we left the KOA to travel and just recently returned in January 2024 for ski season. We’ve learned a lot over the year, not all good things, but the big question stands – would we do another year?

Lets talk about some of the good things we’ve learned and experienced during our year of RV life.

Intentional purchasing

I wouldn’t say we were over consumers in the apartment, but moving out was full of decluttering and donating. We kept necessities, extras of items we use often (like towels, toilet paper, soaps, etc), and sentimental things we couldn’t part with. I did make myself condense all of my holiday decor into one medium sized box, which lives in the under bed storage. The decor in the camper came from the apartment, with the exception of the clock in the bathroom.

There have been tons of times living in the camper where I’d see something cute at target that I would have bought in the apartment, but I had to take a minute to think of it had a place in the camper. Most of the time, the answer was no. And honestly, that was ok. We grew tired of the clutter in our apartment, and in the camper we try our hardest not to have clutter on sitting areas, on the counters, or in places we’d have to move on travel days.

Not only does intentionally choosing what we bring into the camper save us money, but it saves us the headache of running out of space. A good rule we like to follow is one thing in, one thing out. I usually apply this rule to clothes. I have a ton of t shirts that I’ve had for quite some time, so if I buy a new shirt at a national park, I can easily find an old shirt to either donate or throw away (if it has holes and such). I will say, I don’t apply this rule to mugs….

Traveling more than PTO allows

Another huge plus side of RV life for us was the ability to travel more than 2 weeks out of the year. We had a few hiccups in the beginning, figuring out which days work best to travel around our work schedules, but we figured it out pretty quickly. Especially after we implemented our 350 mile max in a day rule. Looking back on this year, we wouldn’t have traveled to half of the places we went, gone to any of the concerts we saw, or seen most of the family we were able to visit.

Your home is with you always

There’s something to be said about having a long travel day and still being able to sleep in your bed every night. We were able to shove our mattress from the apartment into our RV bedroom, which was a phenomenal effort. We had to transfer it to the camper, get it through the door, and then squeeze it through the bedroom onto its platform. And it is TIGHT. Like we have to pull it out a few inches to get the sheet on, and it’s a two person job. Having the comfort of a nice mattress every night though was worth the effort. Especially if you’ve ever slept on a stock RV mattress. No thanks.

Also, all of your stuff is with you! There’s so fear of arriving to your destination to realize you forgot your earbuds, chargers, soap, skin care, or toothpaste. Or course some of these things you can buy at a nearby store, but not if you’re boondocking or in a more remote campground. Also, who wants to replace things they totally meant to pack?? RV life gave us the comfort of not having to remember the small things to pack for a camping trip.

Campground utilities

At our apartment, we were spending $60 minimum for water and trash plus $100 minimum for electricity. At campgrounds with monthly rates, they tend to build in utilities at a flat rate. For example, the KOA we stayed at had a $50 a month flat fee for electricity, water, and sewer. Imagine paying $50 a month for electricity when You’re running 2 ac units NON STOP. That’s nothing! Additionally, if you’re willing to look into local campgrounds for your nightly rates, they can be as low as $40 for full hookups! We’ve found cheaper, but mostly in Texas.

Campground showers are a hot topic. Are public showers ok to use? We say yes, if they’re clean and well kept. Our favorites are the ones where it’s individual cubicles basically. You have a full locking door with a shower, toilet, and sink inside. Completely private to you. We don’t mind clean showers with curtains, but I prefer to only use those if I’m the only person in the entire bathroom. If you’re looking for a nice long shower, campground showers are the way to go! Most of the time they’re free too.

Small space = less cleaning

I don’t mind cleaning, but I don’t care to clean a large space every day. It’s so much easier to keep up with cleaning in a 200 sq ft space. It literally takes 2 minutes to vacuum or mop. The countertops may be small, but it’s easy to wipe down in less than 5 minutes. It’s a very small thing, but it’s definitely a pro to RV life.

Thousand Trails

I’ll keep this one quick – our first stint in TT in Orlando, FL this summer/fall saved us over $4000 in campground fees. This video explains more about TT and the pass we have!

TT is what allowed us to stay in spots for longer than 5 nights without blowing the budget out of the water. TT is also what’s going to allow us to spend 3 1/2 months in the PNW this summer!

While there are many other good things about RV life, let’s move onto the not so good things we’ve encountered while living in our RV

No bathtub

Ok this one’s a little silly, but I miss my bathtub the most. Bathtubs are hard to come by in campers. I miss my bathtub because there was nothing better than ending a long day at work by coming home to a hot bath and some bubbles.

Constant moving

A pretty big downside to RV life is constant moving, unless you stay in the same campground for multiple months at a time. Typically, we stay in TT campgrounds where the max stay is 14-21 days depending on the campground. That’s why you’ll find a lot of people with TT memberships rotating between nearby campgrounds. This is especially easy in Florida, Arizona, and the coastal areas where there’s a high concentration of TTs.

However, the constant moving can be tiresome after a while. Towing a camper comes with more to look out for while driving, and travel days can take a lot out of anyone involved. If you’re having to move every few days it gets very tiresome. When we were able to stay in one place for 21 days at a time, it felt like forever. So being back at the KOA for a while is a nice break.

Snowbird season

Snowbird season is awful for booking campsites in most places people like to winter in RVs. Thankfully we prefer the snow and cold, so we go the opposite way of the snowbirds. However, we did overlap in Florida before Thanksgiving. Trying to find a campsite was very, very difficult as more and more people were flocking to Florida.

Of course, there are a few more annoyances to RV life that I haven’t mentioned here, just like there are more great things about RV life, but these are the ones that stood out most to us. What are your favorite or least favorite parts of RV life? Or if you’re not a full timer, what do you think would be the reasons you’d start or stop RV life?

And the big question – would we do another year? The short answer is yes, but we’d do it a little differently. Follow along to find out how in the coming months.

RV Life with Cats

If you’ve followed me on instagram or seen my YouTube videos, you’ve definite seen my two orange tabbies that call our camper home. The smaller one is Ducky, but she more commonly goes by Baby, Loaf, Dumdum, Cheeto Puff, and Spitty Baby. She’s 4 years old, and we adopted her in June 2021 after we moved to Utah. She loved to cuddle, sleep with her tongue out, and lay on your neck like a scarf. The bigger one is Mario, but he goes by Chonk, Chonky Boy, and Costco Rotisserie Chicken. He’s a little old man at the age of 7 and a half, and we adopted him in July 2022 after I went to buy food only and walked out with food and a cat.

Travel days

Chonk was a great adventure cat from the beginning. He liked car rides, exploring outside the camper, sitting in his cat tent, and even walking in the snow! For travel days, we put his harness on and carry him to the truck. Once we’re ready to move, the harness comes off so he can roam as he pleases. The Baby was a different story. She was NOT having it in the truck, but she has gotten much better! Here’s how we got her comfortable in the truck:

  1. Starting off slow: we first tried her harness on inside the camper for a few hours at a time before we ever took her outside. She’s a runner, so if your cat is like her, you want to make sure that harness is secure. I gave her some treats I like to call her “sleepy treats,” which are just some anxiety treats for pets. I got them from PetSmart after doing tons of research. I’d give her 30 minutes or so after eating the treats before putting her harness on. This definitely helped in the beginning when she was getting used to the harness going over her head.
  2. Introducing the truck: once her harness wasn’t scary anymore, we started taking her into the truck. For the first few times, we didn’t even turn it on. We placed her in the truck with us and sat there while she roamed. Then she graduated to sitting in the truck with it turned on but not moving. After that step, we’d drive around the block a few days a week with her to get her comfortable. We did all of this in the months before we started traveling full time.
  3. Treats: plenty of treats were used to coax her into the truck. We would (gently) toss her into the truck, but she got treats before, during, and after the excursion. And plenty of cuddles.
  4. Introducing the crate: we learned soon after introducing her to the truck in a harness that a crate may be better for her needs. I found a crate on Amazon for a small dog, so it’s quite roomy for a small cat. We started out with the crate open in the camper with her favorite blanket inside so she could explore as she pleased. Now, we put her in the crate to carry her to the truck as she seemed to fight less. I think it was because she knew she was contained and couldn’t fall, jump, etc. Once in the truck and ready to move, we open the door to the crate for her to roam freely. Sometimes she goes back in to lay on her blanket, and usually she goes back in when she knows we’ve stopped somewhere. We do close her in the crate whenever we need to open the truck doors because she is very fast and is a flight risk.

Our cats can handle up to 6 hour travel days (longest we’ve been with them so far), but we prefer to keep in under 5 hours and with a lunch break if it’s over 3 hours. We tend to stop in Walmart parking lots for lunch because we can push the slides out and toss the cats in to let them use the bathroom, eat, and hydrate. I’ve tried bringing food and water with us on travel days, but they don’t seem to want anything other than treats. They’ll eat the treats no problem though! If you’re worried about accidents, I’d recommend getting seat covers for the back seats and bringing a litter box with you. We don’t bring the litter box, but we do have the back seat covers, just in case.

Cat-friendly RV

Since we moved into the RV with cats, we were prepared to make a few modifications to accommodate litter boxes, feeders, and anything else they needed.

The biggest modification we made was adding cat doors to the bathroom door and the closet door where their litter box is housed. I found extra large cat doors on Amazon to make sure the Chonk would fit through them. I was going to buy a second one for the closet door, but we ended up using the back of the one I already had for the bathroom door instead.

The bathroom closet houses the litter box, extra food, and one of the two feeders. The cats access this area through the hole we cut in the door.

Their litter box pads, pellets, treats, and medicine (for Chonk’s allergies) lives in the towel closet. The rest of their stuff is scattered around the camper. The other feeder is in the living area closer to their water fountain. We bought a scratching pad to hopefully get Chonk to stop scratching the furniture (it worked), and we applied some sticky tape to the couch in the meantime to deter scratching (which also worked). Their extra toys, harnesses, and leashes live in the organizers we added to the fronts of our cabinet doors near the main door.

Conclusion

Is RV life with pets troublesome? I’d say no, personally. We have enough space for us and the cats to happily live in the camper, even if Chonk attacks your feet. Even if the Baby sneezes on me every chance she gets. I wouldn’t trade RV life with pets for the world. If you’re training your cats for travel, definitely go slow with it. I’m happy to answer any questions about the topic below in the comments!

My Goals for 2024

Hey y’all! And a happy belated new year.

2023 was a crazy year for us – we left our apartment to move into our camper, we traveled across the country, we upgraded our Thousand Trails membership, and I started a YouTube channel to name a few things. While I’m excited to see what 2024 holds, I wanted to make a few goals for myself. I wouldn’t call them resolutions because it’s ok if I don’t complete them, but it’s still something to work towards.

Goal 1

Explore more of the northern US. This seems super broad, but Glacier National Park has been on my bucket list forever and a day, and we’re finally planning to go this summer! I don’t want to stop there though. I want to explore Idaho, Michigan, Vermont, and everything in between! Leave a comment down below with the most northern state you’ve been to (mine is New York).

Goal 2

Be less uptight and learn to go with the flow of life. This is one I’ve been working on for all of my life, but my type A personality hasn’t quite let that happen. I’ve already had a great start to the year with this goal though! Yesterday and today I booked a campsite for that night. I’ve never booked campsites less than a week out let alone the same day! This seems super small, but I allowed myself to accept that if our original destination wasn’t suitable, it’s ok for the plan to change. And that’s exactly what happened. And I rolled with it.

Goal 3

Document my travels and RV life more frequency. Specifically, I want to make candid, long-form content like YouTube travel vlogs and personal blog posts. The origins of anxietyinacamper were to share my travel anxieties, which transitioned into sharing my RV life. I enjoy making funny reels, informational videos, and upgrade how-to’s – and I will continue to make those – but I want to remain true to the reason I started my account. Not to go viral, not to get sponsored. Just sharing the highs and lows of traveling. With some campground reviews, tips, tricks, upgrades, and cats sprinkled here and there.

What are your goals for 2024?

Welcome to Anxietyinacamper!

Welcome to the blog!

My name is Ash and welcome to anxietyinacamper (the blog)! 

I created anxietyinacamper first on Instagram (@anxietyinacamper) as a way to express my travel anxiety and hopefully remedy it. That grew into documenting our travels and RV life as that adventure began. I then started a YouTube channel when we moved into our Flagstaff 29RBS travel trailer to document our travels, tips, tricks, and upgrades.

As 2023 progressed, I began playing with the idea of starting a blog. I enjoyed the idea of being able to share long form blurbs and how-to’s, or I could even start writing trip guides, campground recommendations, the sky’s the limit! It’s hard to do that on Instagram, and I don’t always need to make a video.

So here we are, the beginning of the blog! Follow along for content including:

  • Campsite reviews 
  • Thousand Trails experiences
  • Travel tips
  • RV full time tips
  • How we began full timing
  • RV upgrades
  • Truck upgrades
  • and more,

And check out the YouTube channel, especially my first video to learn more about what my channel is about!